digitalpapist:
Can someone explain to me the thinking behind the notion that gay men are not fit for the priesthood because they cannot relate properly to the Church?
Because the longer I think of it, the more theologically troubling such an idea is. Is heterosexual orientation and desire something that is directed towards the Church? If so, in what way? In what manner is the Church “gendered”, so to speak?
This type of thinking is, as far as I know, is fairly new, and largely springs from John Paul II’s thinking on sexuality. Well, actually, the theological ideas were first developed from von Balthasar (this is the one area of his theology that I have rather mixed feelings about). The idea of a counter-sexualization (I think I just coined that phrase) to meet the threat of the sexual revolution has always struck me as an extremely problematic strategy, especially when such thinking is divorced, in either form or application, from the Church’s theological anthropology (Which is why I have HUGE problems with Christopher West and Jason Evert).
This thinking seems to spring from an idea that celibacy is not really an ascetical undertaking, a renunciation, but rather a redirecting of the pattern of sexual desire.
It all seems poorly premised, a mistaken reaction to the sexualization of all things in modernity by doing the same to the Church.
I’ve been thinking about this issue myself, and so I’ll share my thoughts on it. I should note, that these are my thoughts, and not Church teaching in any manner. I also think it should be noted that this document, “instruction concerning the criteria for the discernment of vocations with regard to persons with homosexual tendencies in view of their admission to the seminary and to holy orders,” is a fairly new document and there is not a lot of analysis around it, so when we analyze it, much of it will be speculative, and probably reading in more of our own biases than the intent of the document.
Anyways, the two major arguments made in the document are,
“deep-seated homosexual tendencies are… objectively disordered and… in light of such teaching..the Church, while profoundly respecting the persons in question, cannot admit to the seminary or to holy orders those who practise homosexuality, present deep-seated homosexual tendencies or support the so-called “gay culture”
“Such persons, in fact, find themselves in a situation that gravely hinders them from relating correctly to men and women. One must in no way overlook the negative consequences that can derive from the ordination of persons with deep-seated homosexual tendencies.”
So I don’t think the argument has ever been made that because gay men cannot relate properly to the Church (as an entity) they can’t be ordained, but rather, because they cannot relate properly to the individuals who make up the Church. I’m not saying I necessarily agree with that statement, but that seems to be the statement made.
But I think it is important to note that it does not seem this is a blanket policy against all people with same-sex attractions, but instead an explanation of how seminary policies may be applied to those who express deep-seated homosexual tendencies. The modifier seems to suggest that there is a difference between having a same-sex attraction and having one that is deep-seated. This is the opinion of Cardinal Dolan who said, “It’s not a no-gays policy.”
Given that the other two things this instruction says would not be allowed by seminarians are “practicing homosexuality,” and “supporting the gay culture,” and both are acts, it makes sense to believe “having deep-seated homosexual tendencies” is also an act, not merely the tendency of being attracted to people of the same sex.
My opinion is that a deep-seated homosexual tendency is a homosexual tendency that has been allowed to affect not just the passions of the human person, but also the intellect and the will.
Consider that a person’s action is often predicated upon what they believe to be true. A person who believes certain acts are wrong, are less likely to commit them. In other words, a person is less likely to “will” against their intellect, than with it. This is why it is important for us to learn and believe the truth, so that we may act in accordance with it. We can call this the natural state, natural not meaning primordial, but the “just” state, in which reason is governing the will and keeping the passions in check.
But, we understand that sometimes it does happen that we do things we know to be wrong, and so act against our intellect. For example, one who knows stealing is wrong, may still steal if the prize is deemed “worth it.” In these situations, we may say that reason has lost control of the will, and the passions have taken control of the man. When this occurs, a man may do wrong and violate his intellect, (his conscience,) but it is likely that he will feel some remorse over it. A man in this situation is liable to seek forgiveness and attempt to do better to govern his passions in the future.
But there is a situation far worse than this, it is when a man allows himself to be deceived in his intellect, and believes what is wrong to be right, and what is evil to be good. A man in this situation can do wrong and still act in accordance with his intellect, and therefore, there is no interior check on his actions. There may be exterior checks, such as parents, teachers, and authorities, both civil and religious, but if a man truly believes with his intellect that he is right in his actions, he will often discount these individuals and find excuses to ignore their authority and their opinions.
Another possibility is that they may obey these authorities, but maintain their beliefs, for some ulterior motive. Consider a person who smokes marijuana, who claims that it is not harmful, who agrees to quit drugs, (at least for a short period of time,) in order to hold a job that does randomized drug tests. It is likely that such an employee may grow to resent the employer for what they see as forcing them to comply with a belief that they do not hold, (that smoking marijuana is harmful.) A person in this situation may grow to resent the authority, and try to act contrary to the authorities wishes in secret. Such a situation may cause great harm to not just the employee and the employer, but anyone else who may depend on them to fulfill their duties.
Consider these positions applied to same-sex attractions. If a man’s passions direct him towards committing homosexual acts, but his intellect attempts to control his will into denying these passions, like the intellect of an obese man who wishes to lose weight may try to hold the man’s will into denying his hunger, we may say such a man is merely struggling with a temptation, and therefore, so long as he is supported in his struggle, he may overcome it. In this situation we may say his homosexual inclination is not deep-seated because it has not taken root in the man’s intellect and any acts committed by him are only a manifestation of when the man gives into temptation, not a manifestation of his interior disposition towards the act.
On the other hand, a deep-seated homosexual attraction results when one not only has a same-sex attraction, (affecting the passion) but also a belief that homosexual acts are moral, (affecting the intellect.) When this occurs, one can commit homosexual acts and still act according to his intellect. He will not feel remorse over his actions, will not seek repentance, and will not work to prevent future acts. For this reason, such a deep-seated homosexual attraction has a degree of permanence, which is only altered by divine grace which may cause a change of heart, or rather, of intellect.
A man in this situation, who ordained a priest, is required not only to obey a vow of celibacy, but also uphold in word and deed the moral teachings of the Church, may find himself resenting ecclesial authorities, or even the Church herself, for the teachings on homosexuality. He may seek to skirt around such teachings in secret, or might even defy them publicly to great scandal to the faithful.
Furthermore, to become a priest when one harbors a belief contrary to teaching of the Church may cause one to experience the effects of hypocrisy, causing a man to live a kind of double life, upholding Church teachings in public to maintain appearances, but abhorring them in private. Such duplicity is a perversion which affects not only his interior disposition but also his relationships with others. Therefore such a man, with a deep-seated homosexual inclination, may not be able to properly relate to members of the Church because of a lack of transparency.
But again, this only concerns men with a deep-seated homosexual tendency, not those whose intellect continues to struggle against their passions, whose tendencies are therefore challenged by his reason.
This makes sense when you consider that the article goes on to say that if such tendencies are superseded, which seems to suggest that one’s intellect can effectively monitor one’s will against their passions, 3 years prior to ordination to the diaconate, they may be ordained.
Does that make sense? God bless!